14 March 2014

when the season breaks




the ground wept today
when bold winter’s frozen tears
finally fractured with the sun’s lush kiss

the earth melts
the ground softens
and the free flock of craning geese
return home by instinct

as does my soul
that lingered too long
hard-hearted in exile







when the season breaks
a poem by troy cady





















13 March 2014

Thursday Thought:: Play and Culture-Making

"Culture arises and 
unfolds in and as 
play."


-Johan Huizinga (1872-1945) 









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12 March 2014

Mr. Bean and The Judo Master

Mr. Bean needs no introduction. Laugh away, friends. And, while you're at it, we'd love it if you'd like PlayFull on Facebook or follow us on Twitter. Thanks!


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Hump Day is Humor Day at PlayFull. Spread the word, spread some cheer.

08 March 2014

"What if my bladder explodes?" and other things not to be afraid of

I love that scene in What About Bob where Bob sleeps over at the Marvin’s vacation home and Sigmund asks him if he’s afraid of anything.  

Yes, Bob is afraid of…everything. “What if my bladder explodes?”

Bob’s fears make me laugh because in some strange way I can identify with him. When I look at my fears from an outside perspective, I see that all of them are silly things to worry about, really.

I find that fear is a tricky foe. He sneaks up on you with a nameless feeling and lingers, whispering lies or twisting some truth to use as a weapon against freedom and joy.

For me, fear preys on…

…worry about the future,
…worry about possible failure, and
…worry about what others might think of me.

It is not worth worrying about the future because the future has no substance yet. The negative scenarios that pop into my head only exist in my imagination. Worry about the future has no basis in reality.

It is also not worth worrying about failure because…I’ve failed before—and life did not come to a screeching halt. Yes, everyone fails from time to time. No one is perfect. But there is grace and “second chances” beyond counting. What’s more, failure can be a wonderful teacher. Finally: “Who says I’ll fail? No one can predict failure. So, I may as well give it my best.”

It is also not worth worrying about what others might think of me. First of all, there really might be people who think I’m off my rocker. What of ‘em? I can’t control what others think or feel about me. So, why worry about it? I need to be true to who I am, not who others think I should be. Besides, popularity is a game you can never win.

So, Bob and Sigmund—and everyone else—here are three more things you don’t have to be afraid of: the future, failure and the opinions of others. Just be true to who you are, right here, right now, with the gifts that have been given to you. That is all that matters. That is all that is real.

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06 March 2014

"Give Up Gloom and Become More Joyful"

A friend shared this thought the other day. It is a saying by St. Jude and it is definitely worth repeating. Take a couple of minutes and use these simple words as a powerful meditative focus. 


"Give up resentment and become more forgiving.
Give up hatred and return good for evil.
Give up complaining and be more grateful.
Give up pessimism and become more hopeful.
Give up worry and become more trusting.
Give up anger and become more patient.
Give up pettiness and become more noble.
Give up gloom and become more joyful.
Give up doubt and turn to God." 



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04 March 2014

A Free Resource For Lent by Troy Cady


If you'd like a resource to observe Lent with intention, here is one Troy wrote some time ago. It is free and it engages readers in short daily meditations whose end-goal is the experience of being loved and loving. Each day features a short prayer that you can chew on throughout the day.

Click here to download your free copy or email Troy and he will be happy to send it to you that way.

Lent begins tomorrow, March 5, with Ash Wednesday.

Be blessed!

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02 March 2014

You have a voice. Use it.

What can I do to convince you? You have a voice. Use it. You are special and gifted, original beyond what you imagine, beyond what you expect of yourself.  The world needs your passion, your joy. Don’t hide it under a steel bucket. Let loose in a smack of color, a dance no one can copy.

Pick something close by, an object or a dream, a swelling laugh you can neither name nor tame. Tell us about it. Use a line of melody or a paragraph of prose. Use a metaphor, find something and describe it in microscopic truthfulness. Show us your world, all the grit, the smoky fears dissipated, the hard-fought love, the illness overcome, the hope you’ve been tempted to bury, the game won. We are none of us spectators. You are an actor on the grandest stage and there is no failing here, for you are attended by a cheerful company, even though you can’t see them. So, tell your story and make it loud, standing strong. The soul that shrinks alone will not feel so alone anymore. We want to share in your acts of triumph.

You are special and gifted, original beyond what you can imagine, beyond what you expect of yourself. Use your honest voice so we can see that our cracks are by no means fragile. They are our strength, part of the ancient beauty that makes life so precious and valuable. So just start with one small thing, a picture or unfinished carving, a closet with a small box of memories, letters or childhood collections, locks of hair, or medals. These are the stories of mettle that should never be melted. Tell us one story starting tonight and let’s make a week of it. A special vacation. A rest from the ungrace of shoulds and rations, lining up the decimal points. If you would connect the dots, scatter them across the page so we can trace a dragon and color it in together.

Don’t lock yourself up. You are a diamond. Turn around in the light. Our eyes will dazzle with your beauty, every face reflecting. You are red and blue, fire and ice, green and yellow, life and happiness—even your cowardice is a brave thing. There have been moments of wise silence in your life. We want to hear about them now. There have been seasons of strong perseverance. Do share.

What can I do to convince you? You have a voice. Use it. Start now. Pick one small thing to start with and carry on, carry on.

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